Step by Step

What is a goal ?
A goal is the object of a person's effort.

We all have set in mind a goal we want to accomplish at some time in our lives and we work on towers it until we obtain it, does not matter how hard or how long it would be, we work on it until we make it.
Goals are the power that drives us to go farther in life and to accomplish our dreams, not matter how impossible it made seem. Goals is the power of believing we can do it.

I am one of does persons that have many goals, and each one of them compliments the other. My steps are focus towers that impossible dream.
Since college started I have done my list of goals for each semester, and I work towers it every day. In every one of my classes, for example, my next goal for next semester is to pass all my classes, to learn more and be able to go farther in my education, so I can advance one more step towers my future and the most important one that advances one more step towers the reason why I am in school this far. For nest semester I want to take more than 5 classes to advance faster to my future goal. Another goal I want to accomplish is to be more responsible and stop being so lazy and doing everything steps by step.

As it goes for my college experience in my first semester I did not plan anything so I just went ahead without  planning. But for my next semester classes, i want to make more friends and be more involved and get to experience the good and bad side from college. The college experience is a big part of being in college and it what make ou stay and be more present in the school, to know what is around you not matter
what.

Last but it is not the least, for my future beyond college. I want to attend to NAU and become a good nurse and be able to see the patients get better and leave with a good and possible attitude. Work hard and have a big family to get together in does special dates we all have. And most importantly I want to keep contact with does friends I made in my college and university years.

To accomplish all my goals I really have to work hard and maintain my game the right way until winning.

For a Better Life

Value are the importance of having family and friends how loves you and take care of you not matter what.  The TED Talk I watch, says that 49 % of 100 % of teens says that they value having money and the other 50 % says that they value being famous. But what Ted Talk does not say is that the 1% that is missing shows the other percent of teens do not care about the money or the fame. It is hard to prove but there are teens just like me that care more about the friends and family they can have near them. 





I value, the life I had and the life I am having. The friends I have made over the years and even more the friends I got to keep. The fabulous family I got to have. Even though all the hard work and the bad situation I have been through I consider my I have had much love. In the difficult time, I have never thought of money or becoming famous as a goal. Money can be a big part of out lives it can be a help to have a better life but money does not buy friend or family or people that love.

Studies have shown many things, one of does things is that people who live alone life unhappy lives and live less than people that live with their love once and happy. As humans is a good thing to have a loved one near to revive and give love not matter how many fights and problems they can have, but at the end of the day they know that they can count on each other. To give love and happiness. Company is what people need to life longer and happier. 

Veterans Need The Help

It is important to have empathy towards social issues that impact our community, because as we may think that it won't happen to us or to our families, we life in a community that things  like veterans are not given medical attention. That many of them are dying from the medication delays. The veterans medical situation is one of the biggest problems happening now. 

Why are there more than 7,000 veterans in the block list to be attended ? Why isn’t the government doing something to help the 2.4 million armed force men and women that have come back from serving and join the civilian life. These veterans are not getting the attention they should after all the hard work they have done to maintain American citizens safe. 

The VA is the one hospital causing medicals delays. More than 125,000 U.S. veterans are being denied mental health services by the VA. The VA have also manipulated lists to hide real health care wait times. A total of thousands and possibly far more have to face the same fate. The waiting, and dying, at the hands of a company that does not care to does who brought peace in the hardest way someone can. The VA is not only making veterans wait for medical attention that is urgent but at least 19 veterans have died because of delays in simple medical screenings like colonoscopies or endoscopies, at various VA hospitals or clinics. Who as to fill out a 23-page claim to get care, or wait months, even years to get an appointment at the VA. 

Veteran dye  waiting for medical attention. The VA data shows that those who receive mental health care from the VA are less likely to commit suicide than those who don't get care. But is the problem, that many veterans are not receiving mental health care. Many veterans attempted to their life. For example, veteran burned himself alive outside VA clinic. Situations like this happen when veterans are not given the attention they need to get better. And let's not talk about the dozens of veterans that had died while waiting for care at the Phoenix VA. Which was, unfortunately, just the tip of the iceberg. In 2014, 20 veterans committed suicide daily. 

Less stop ignoring what is going on in our community and less start helping does veterans that need medical attention as soon as possible. Less make the VA acknowledge the help, does that have fought for the safety American citizens have.  

Encouraging

Americans parents many times they  do not have the strength to tell their kids that they have done wrong, and they do not show them how to amend it. Many parents think that if they tell their kids they have done wrongs they would not be able to do better on the future that they would be vulnerable to do better and be successful in the future.

When you tell a kid “ You must be very intelligent.” You make them believe they are and they would many times chose the hard problems so they look good in front of others. But in many occasions the kids that have been told they must be very intelligent, they tend to do good to start with, but they end up doing worse. After the kids do bad, they tend to doubt their self, and start thinking they are not as intelligent as they have been told.


In other hand, kids that parents tell them “ You must work hard to do better.” Many times tend to do best. As resource has shown kids that know if they do bad they can fix it by looking into the problem. Kids that have been told they must work hard on a problem, they take the easy problems which would give them more intelligent and learn more about them than the problems that are hard to do and they learn nothing about it. They can take many tests and do bad in the first try but  after they look over it and learn what they did wrong they do much better than the kid that had been told that “ they are very intelligent.”

Giving kids a  label of being smart does not prevent them from performing at their best, many things is why they end up doing bad.

I have experience that many times when you tell students that they are very intelligent. They stop training their best and just focus in the part they are good at and not the ones they can improve, students that have been tell they are intelligent they do the things they are good at, many students are good at reading and focus all in that subject. But in courses that they are not so good they give up when they can not do a simple problem, like a math problems.

Since i was little my mom has always tell me to try my best, and keep trying until i figure out. It does not matter if i am or i am not intelligent, if i try my best in problems that seem difficult at the end i would figure out what was i doing wrong.

Parents have to have the courage to tell their kids in what way they have done wrong and in the ways they have done good or even the best. This does not mean that you should not tell your kid that you love them, this mean that parents should have the strength to tell their kids if they should keep working to do their best or that they did good but can do better.

INFJ The Protector

The infj stands of the type of person i am and I know this now because a took a personality test and my results were : I stands for INTROVERT in which i had a 50%, N for INTUITION and i have a 9%, F for FEELING in this a got a 3 % and J for JUDGING in with my number was 3%.  Our personality is who we are and were be can do best at, it affects out life and the normal things you do in the daily life. This has a small percentage in the way you write.

Infj have a perseverance originality and 

desire to do whatever is needed or wanted. They get concerned for other, and they are conscientious.

An introvert in writing, their writing is easier and extroverts, and they write most of their paper in their heads, they plan before they write, and want their ideas clarified before putting it on paper. They have a major disadvantage when they need to write in class. Introverts  tend to spend more time in between drafts to make revisions, they spend more time the extroverts. They tend to write alone, one of the strengths of introverts who has a N in their four letters, is that they tend to excel's their writing. Introverts become bored when writing because they have already planned their paper in their head. Introverts have internal focus, they are very thoughtful, understanding before acting, and they like a slower pace and some private time.

An intuition in writing, likes general instruction to allow them freedom in their writing, their first draft lack mechanical correctness, they write fast. People with intuition write the best given general directions. They create ideas quickly, they write fast too and one idea creates and other they writing end ups in the right way.  Intuition strengths is that they are excellent at presenting theories and concepts and at devising new and  unusual ways of writing. But there weaknesses they forget to include concrete example and may not provide their readers with background information.

A Feeling in writing, are motivated  by assignments that relate to personal matters, they focus on the audience, and their ideas have further organization. The people who results is the feeling they have a subjective criteria, and have interpersonal relationships and personal values. They are very high in the personal expression in making choices. For  those who has feeling a very important part of their writing is their prewriting. When they write they tend to make some connection with their personal experience. A person with feeling thinks that their readers need additional information, they would put it on there. But they need to focus more in the message is delivered to the audience than on content. Some strength they have is that they are very excellent at the topics that are about feeling, and they are very good at making connection with their audience. Feeling types weaknesses is that they lack a clear organization structure.

A Judging in writing, they have limit topics and get drafts done quickly, later in the draft they tend to expand their ideas, they begin writing before completing research. Judgment types they tend to organize their life, they are very playful, well organized, they do not like loose ends. Judging types tend to get and specific topic and set goals that can be manageable. They tend to divide their papers in two second parts to make it better organize.  When writing a draft the make it short with ideas started emphatically and without qualification. They tend to write quickly, they meet deadlines and produce more writing.  

To end, i do agree with the results and explanations it has being giving for the INFJ, because i strongly believe that the explanations identify me for who i am and the way i write, it is completely true that i can write very fast, i am a very organized person when it comes to important matters. I like to separate my paragraph to make it easier and a very easy to understand while i am making sure i have done everything like i have already plan to or the audience is reading it.

What is Grit?

Grit is passion and perseverance. By the dictionary there are two mains to the word grit:

1:  small, loose particles of sand

2.  strength of character.

The second definition is the one that defines it, because i am pretty sure dirt and  sand is not that meaning i am looking for. Many things contribute to being success. The truth is that success is not some things that can be decided by someone else than yourself, it does not come from nowhere it is part of the passion you have to do what you want to do.

Finding some things that drives you to do what you do. For many people there is not a better feeling than doing what many people said they could not do it. Having grit is not leading obstacles of life leading stop you or prohibiting you get to your goal in life.

The video "“The Key to Success? Grit. (Links to an external site.)"is a TED Talk by Angela Lee Duckworth. She makes many great points about grit and the ways it can change our fate. Grit means to choose who you want to become instead of letting someone else do it for you. Take life one step at a time and make the changes you need to make to reach the goals you have set up for your life.


Grit can be connected with many other attributes that drive you to your success. Perseverance, passion, dedication, devotion, and focus are just some things would help you reach your dreams.

In the ways i have grit is that i never give up no matter what. First, grit is passion and perseverance something that i have seen i got to the united states. Many people have said that i would never would had learn english and i show them that i did do learn english. People said that i did not had the ability to do such a hard thing, and well i prove them wrong, i prove to them and to myself that i have perseverance. Secondly,  many other did not  believe  that i would have started college and would be heading to my dream  career. But they thought wrong once again, i am in college and i would head to my dream career once i finish with my pre-requisites. I did not know what grit was until i watch the video that show my what was that i had to keep accomplishing my goals. Last but not least, i see now that i have strength of character, that i keep accomplishing every goal that i set up in my mind. The harder i work the best i would accomplish my goals and show does who doubted me that i sure can do i.  No matter what other think of my abilities i would always prove them wrong because i have perseverance.